“Hey.” This single word is sent My way by subs several times a day. What I’m supposed to do with this kind of message remains a mystery. What doesn’t is their eligibility for a reply, it’s always none. Professionals of all kinks and kinds open the same message with the same single word. “Hey.” This is a (insert chosen honorific here)’s first and most blaring clue that this submissive isn’t ready for the kind of energy that’s required to serve. When looking for the right submi